One thing I have learned over my 44 years is that I truly appreciate a good breeze and there is something about the wind in my hair that just makes me happy. I should have known how much I would enjoy a silly convertible since you could throw me on any “open top” mode of transportation (four-wheeler, scooter, horse, boat...) and I tend to be a happy camper.
So if you follow along with me on instagram or Facebook, you have most certainly come across my most loved purchased that just makes me smile. A convertible!!! I had a second daily driver car that I didn’t trade in stupidly at the time and had been needing to sell or do something to get rid of. Finally something donned on me to trade that sucker in that was sitting in my driveway and get myself a lil’ convertible that I would drive! And so I did.
Side note: I would never encourage you to buy a brand new luxury car. Because after purchasing slightly used Mercedes convertible with 70,000 miles, for a 1/4 of original price I’ve learned to let someone else take that massive hit! I still scored by someone whom babied it in their garage and kept it meticulous.
I have had such an absolute ball with this beauty, and I’m telling you now, if you have ever wanted to get a convertible, or that is on your vision board, make it happen. (Make sure has proper roll bar safety with your purchase). From grabbing a high school friend and hitting the open road to taking my 88 year old mom on crazy adventures to conning my closest friends to give it a try when it’s 45 degrees out because I promised they wouldn’t be cold. I’ve done and as long as the weather holds up I’ll keep my top down and making myself enjoy the breeze daily.
September and October typically are busy months for us down in NOTO and at Serendipity. Addison has been back, currently living in Lawrence and has since started a phenomenal job, but had been helping me and my assistant Anne until her new job started. Handling the events, getting things lined up and honestly took over those events and worries off my plate!
I mentioned something to Addison at one point as I was coming thru an event on her work ethic or something. She quickly reminded me she had not “worked” for me since she was a kid basically. True. Wow, I should have been trying to snatch her up and keep her permanently, although I know my little village isn’t her life’s calling either, maybe one day it will be? :). I have created the most incredible ride or die squad in NOTO over the years that has honestly been one of my most rewarding parts of this adventure. I get so many things done, and can juggle so many things because I have a great squad that loves me and my businesses, and has figured out how to deal with my ass.
Sometime I need to do a full rundown of my 8 years of craziness and colorful people that have influenced my world, but my current team of Anne and Duffy, Addison and my rock Nick, all things can get handled and covered. My sister Patti is always a phone call away for a store run for the bar or helping to sling beers at some events. Chris Page, my other business partner in Serendipity, who is one of my dearest friend that I love as a sister, that both my mother and sister would also claim, is always down anytime she is asked for anytime in NOTO or the Dip. Her and Wayne will gather the tools and head over to make it happen. Her energy puts mine to shame so I know she is ALWAYS down for a new challenge and adventure. Thus how Serendipity started and came to life! AND, I’m beyond thrilled to have Chris Page Designs doing a pop up shop above Pinkadilly opening November First Friday. All of Chris’ passions, talents and gifts culminated into one. I can not ever rave enough about this woman’s talent.
One does not realize the amount of things one would like to get done before inviting people inside the home. So I have a brilliant idea to finally invite my circle to my house for my first actually “party”. The timing worked out, I could get my best girlfriend Shannon Bannerman here in town from Cincinnati, Ohio to help me celebrate, it fell over a First Friday weekend, and I wasn’t gone on an adventure! So my bright idea of inviting people over, some whom have never been to my most recent home not only created a weekend full of laughter, stomach aches from food and laughter, but a couple weeks prior to the party me realizing holy hell there is a lot I should get done!!
I’m not even going to go into my crazy obsession that I am not sure if I would say embarrassingly ...but I don’t typically enjoy the conversations that follow me admitting to others that I have a fascination with cryptozoology and Sasquatch creatures. Love it! Again, most conversations that occur following my admitted fascination of the subject, do I enjoy because I know it makes most giggle. BUT, those that love me, know I love it. I always have. So I received the most adorable things for my birthday this year that just tickled me!
Cincinnati is obviously another city I spent a fair amount of time which is a fun city for me to observe/analyze because it is literally triple the size of Topeka. There is an area that very Serendipitously I have spent a fair amount of time called Over The Rhine. It’s location and proximity to an “at risk” area along side the energy behind the home grown shop owners working to grow and make a mark obviously reminds me of NOTO, and is a fun way to watch/learn how they do things in their district. You may see a stamp on money with “OTR” or NOTO$ on one side. It was an idea I stole from “Over The Rhine” years ago. Arts districts, independent retailers and arts in general make a significant impact on a local community’s economy and when you watch the spread of money that has been circulated around the world that all occurred because of the sale of art, is incredible.
Greater Topeka Partnership also had a study done at some point in the past 12 months and one of the areas this firm had Serendipitously chosen to study was OTR when looking for a comparable area to the NOTO Arts and Entertainment District. Often will catch me there at their major events catching their scene and learning from what they are doing! One of my favorite events that I have been able to attend twice now is Blink.
If you have not attended a Blink, or are not aware of what it is, or where one is located. Stop and click on this link now. It is incredible. Nuff said. https://blink2019.com
Thanks for following along! Here are a few more odds and ends over the past 45 days thought you might find fun. Make sure you have found me on instagram and have not only “LIKED” Serendipity, Pinkadilly and NOTO Burrito, but you have also “liked” my separate business page and have checked out my website www.jennytorrence.com. Things are starting to come together online with my new clothing staples that one can order anytime, from anywhere!! And of course, you can always email or Facebook and we can get you taken care of.
What a way to celebrate getting another year older! I must admit, I had a wonderful birthday filled with so much love that I don’t mind getting older if everything keeps getting better with age.
I was reminded that 43 is a prime number, and although years ago it terrified me, I'm not sure what I was worried about! Life gets better, and your celebrations get longer and more unique!
An annual Torrence tradition since as long as I can remember is spending our birthdays at the North Star. Of course a part of Topeka and TORRENCE history so is a must if looking for a good steak, but you also get a free steak on your birthday! And growing up, we didn’t eat out much and if so it was primarily at North Star or if you remember The Plantation. Over the years the owners have changed but overall the spirit, good food and memories still continue.
The North Star Steakhouse is known for their steaks and fries with homemade gravy, thus I strongly recommend giving that a try. Their hash browns happen to be my favorite but they are basically chopped up French fries sautéed with onions. Your fries and gravy are unlimited home style so dig in, and if need more just ask! I giggle when someone says they gave it a try and ordered their chicken. Well...North Star Steakhouse is known for its steak. ?
PS. If you are tall, use the potty before you go...you’ll thank me!
If you celebrate with a Torrence, we can promise you it will involve a cake/pie to blow out a candle with, and one must be serenaded by the birthday song. No if's ands or butts with that when dealing with my mom. That is a tradition I'm quite sure I will always keep.
I was beautifully serenaded this year at our Underground Concert at Serendipity just before my birthday. That might be one for the special moment books. Having Jake Livgren accompanied by Eric Wortham at the piano brought tears to my eyes listening to everyone singing around me. My heart was overflowing that evening for so many reasons!! (and if you weren't present at the Underground Concert, shame on you...and you need to find out about what they are and when the next one is. They are the most magical night of music...)
Each and every year I realize I am loved and I hope I am growing somewhat wiser. All I can do is try my best and continue to surround myself with some many incredible and loving people that challenge and support me along my crazy adventure called life!
PS. I've also committed to being better at Instagram, are you on instagram? My personal is below also.
me!- Jenny Torrence
I must admit, my house was a wee bit quiet after this gang left. We had more late night grilling, friendly banter, laughter, music and fun at all hours of the day. Throwing four very different schedules, and distinct personalities into one house can be entertaining and it certainly delivered. Of course Shannon and Eric are used to my crazy world, but this time we brought in Michelle to join us and she just added to our laughter and fun.
Since we conned Eric into a confirmed date in May, he insisted with bring this Philly vocalist that had this deeply soulful voice. He knew I would personally adore her and also she would bring a unique style to Topeka with her vocal stylings.
An artist whose voice was formed by the triumph of her experiences
Of course anyone that Eric recommends I should probably listen to, and of course he was correct. Michelle Lordi has not only a sultry look and voice, she has a heart and spirit that has triumphed and is contagious.
Michelle landed on Wednesday and hit the ground running. She made it to Topeka and then shortly onto Serendipity for their first concert of the trip. Following day she was game to do the Danielle Norwood show on WIBW with me to promote their final performance on Friday. And of course you can see, it didn't take me long to get them into their own #Iamtopeka shirts.
Interview Danielle Norwood, Eric Wortham, & Jenny Torrence WIBW
Their performance Wednesday evening was the launch of our Underground Concert Series at Serendipity. Many unique music opportunities and experiences from Eric and special guests at Serendipity are to come. After Eric's first visit, he was able to see the spirit in Topeka and the forward momentum that we have as a community, and is proud of NOTO. I guess my passion is contagious because Eric has committed to making NOTO a regular stop along his travels to help be a part of the change.
Photo courtesy of Jennifer Goetz
The evening was just magical and I'm quite sure at one point or another everyone may have shed a tear. It was truly beautiful. The ambiance, our new piano (to us...), Eric, Michelle and those that were in attendance just made the evening a once in a lifetime event.
Friday evening Eric and Michelle helped with a fundraiser for NOTO Arts and Entertainment District. The NOTO Arts center hosted a VIP reception for Eric and Michelle and allowed for a meet and greet with the artists.
Of course the reception was amazing, especially the food from Front Door Catering. Holy cow! They had these lil bread things with brown stuff and avocados, to die for. (that is my technical description) We all then headed down to Serendipity for the private fundraiser for an intimate evening with Eric and Michelle.
The evening was as expected, spectacular. This intimate, private event filled another round of hearts in Topeka. Especially when our newly elected, Mayor Michelle De La Isla, decided to get up and show us just another talent of hers. So proud of her on so many fronts!
My heart is full although my house may be quiet. As fast as they all come in, they all head back out, leaving us with beautiful memories and reasons to look forward to their next visit.
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One of the best things in life is getting to know others...understanding others, learning from others, and having people in your life that challenge you as a person and make you a better human being.
I completely acknowledge that I have worked hard to surround myself with those that will make me a better person. They build me up, and they are who I aspire to be, to emulate or to make proud. People in my world stretch me. Granted, I have a daily dose of stretchin’ from those in my world that teaches me patience, understanding, humor and honestly acknowledging those who can not do better, if they don’t know to do better.
I also have those that come into my world to teach me...more then most because they impact your world and you as a person. They leave your world a little better then when they entered it. These are the people you love to be around and crave to be in their space. They make you feel good and others around you feel good. These people make my heart full when I am with them naturally I want to be a better person because of them.
Then there are those that change your world. And in all reality, these might be the people in your “favorites lists”, or aspire to be in your favorites list, or have been at one time. I feel if you have been a part of that handful of people in my world that hold that place, these people know you and get you and still love you.
I acknowledge, that I Jenny Torrence, sometimes have the craziest things happen and get to experience the most mind blowing, amazing things. (refer to paragraph 2) my amazing people know their amazing people who know...
In comes my amazing friend Eric Wortham II. I will try and catch up eventually on the fun story of meeting Eric while he was touring with Adele, but I have to share this one chapter on Eric, and his impact not only on my world, but on those he crosses paths with.
The proper introduction to Eric Wortham would be sharing the impressive list of accolades, accomplishments and his impressive musical resume. Jazz and classically trained accomplished pianist, composer, songwriter and producer is just the tip of the iceberg. I never want to lessen his talents or successes, or the extreme dedication, hard work and drive of Eric’s career, but Eric to me is so much more. I will fully give Eric his professional accolades when I share how I met him, but In mean time, google him or better yet find him on I-tunes or catch him on tour. ;)
The true beauty of my dear Eric is his ability to connect with those around him. Eric’s platform of music will connect with most people in one way or another. His ability to hear a song, run it thru his head, and then let his fingers go to work is beyond nuts to me. So if music speaks to you, you’ll love and appreciate Eric. Listening to Eric play is truly beautiful, regardless the genre, you will appreciate his musical talent. Probably one of my top five favorite moments in life would have to be watching a recent performance of Eric’s while in the UK. (I'll share more soon, but will leave a sneak peak video). Getting to enjoy Seal along side of Eric was a fun bonus. They are coming to the US this summer, and you must catch a tour date. It was an amazing show!! **
Eric sharing his personal world, heart and talent is a special gift to those who matter to him. So I feel honored for Eric to have agreed to come play a private concert for my mom. I, along side some close friends, were blessed to spend an intimate evening with Eric at Serendipity and for a couple hours, and for those moments, we were his world. Eric opened up to us about his incredible journey, answered questions, shared laughter, accompanied lots of bad singing, saved me Jenny Dorrence (the side of my personality that makes those who love me shake their head...a name given to me by Eric ) from many a stumbles and spills, made life long impressions on a few young adults, and made a lot of hearts happy and full.
I can’t ever thank him enough for that beautiful gift he shared with me, my mom and so many others. I know Eric looks forward to coming back to Topeka, and course we look forward to having him. We are hoping for this summer after his current tour ends and each and every time we can get the wind to bring him here. ****see below special visit planned